tell me boys, if you had to pick between these two negatives, which would you pick?
1. to be alone and unloved
OR
2. to be disrespected and inadequate
just been reading something. i guess girls can say too if they like. might be interesting.
Category: Ummmm.....1 if it's just romantic love.
Posted by: David at July 7, 2005 01:48 PMYeah, one. But I'm hoping to give both a solid go in my lifetime.
Posted by: Tom at July 7, 2005 02:59 PMIm picking 2. I dont like losing peoples respect but I can handle being inadeqate.
number 1 is no fun---why? whats the answer
there is no "answer", but i was reading about a survey done with thousands of (american) men, and some significnatly large percentage picked number 1. they would rather feel unloved than disrespected or inadequate. although, there's also the point that being disrespected can make a man feel unloved.
anyway, most girls will pick 2. they'd rather feel loved than respected.
it's just interesting, and i wanted to see if more people would answer it and if it agreed with this other survey.
at the moment it does... two thirds of men i surveyed picked 1 :)
Posted by: jenny at July 7, 2005 10:48 PMdoes that make me a girl?
Posted by: ian at July 8, 2005 01:15 PMyeah - larry crabb talks about that stuff too.
Posted by: steve at July 10, 2005 12:17 AM