"Having your objectives and goals clear is the first step in learning to say NO to others and to yourself. At times we agree to things, not because of a value but because of an inability to say "no". It is not easy to learn to live with the possibility of being misunderstood, but if we live on the basis of whether we will be understood or not, then others are determining the unfolding of our lives and we end up doing everything others expect of us. As we learn to say "no" for the right reasons, we become free to say "yes" as God leads us."
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